UNITED BENETTON of COLORS

13 August, 2008 The personality of Ghrame

Hi people, since Ghrame is not around, here is what I could tell all of you about him since the time I have known him. I have not written anything in his blog as I just wanted to read the stories and events of his life as he wrote.

Ok,for one thing I know about him is that he always helps others more than himself. He does not bother about the problems he has but he helps those in need. He is a very nice chap and he always smiles. Sometimes he is forgetful and there are certain people who I have known had made use of him for his kindness in helping others. He does not really show his temper and he tends to forget any incident that others do to him as he is the sort of person who does not bear grudges on anyone.So far I have never come across a singaporean like him before eversince I worked here.

Over the past few months I have seen alot of changes in him when he was with that woman from cycle & carriage where he use to work. He had told me certain things which till today I still do remember some of them. He was really very happy being with her and the kids. Every night he would fetch her after work and head back to Admirlty and fetch the kids where they would have dinner at the void decks or at the hawker center near her brother's home. After dinner, he would teach them and if they are wrong he would punish them by writing words. I have seen photos of him with her and her kids. They look like a happy married couple. He once told me how much he love her and that he would do anything for her. She was in a divorce suit with her husband and he stood by her all the way. On weekends he would take all 3 of them out to places quite often. At times he would be upset for the things that she has said to him as She wants more money from him to pay for certain things that she wants. He was willing to do all that for her. He also told me how romantic they would be when they were together and how loving she seemed to him. I could see it in his eyes that he has been waiting for a long time for something like this to happen to him. She was everything to him. When I wanted to meet him, he was always not free to meet me. I could see how devoted he was with her and the kids. But I could not understand why she did such a thing to him. He had made some mistakes like talking to her ex-husband and doing crazy things like waiting for her under her block and putting a poster up. He told me once that she said he was the one that was sending emails to all the people in cycle. Common sense will tell you that only if you are in the company,you will be able to get all the people's email addresses to send to others. Moreover I think she has forgotten that once she was with another guy called Chris who was in cycle also and she made Chris send emails to all of Ghrame's friends telling them what sort of person he is. Ghrame forgave her for that and was with her as he trusted her so much. Does she not know that she betrayed him and ruined his image so badly with all those emails.

Sometimes I wonder, why is it so hard for her to see that no matter what had happened between them and she was the one who has been making too many police reports on him before the day when she was with him. She was practically making use of him and wanting more. Furthermore, she already has another guy from than on and was cheating him all the way. A leopard will not change its spots no matter what happens. She will forever do it. She does not understand the love he has for her and how bad she made him feel as all he wanted was her and the kids. She has been giving him cold treatments and making things so worse for him that what is the point with being with a woman like her. Too bad I am not a Singaporean and the laws this country has does not apply to me. Moreover there is no extradition with my country and singapore. Ghrame has been the nicest person that I have known and he really goes out all his way to help others in need. Many people who knew him will know the truth. He is very straight forward to the point and not many could take it. I remember the times when he talked to me about her and how he wanted to marry her so badly even though she was not highly educated nor is she smart. All I know is that she works in New Car Logistics in Cycle & Carriage at Pandan Garden but I myself could not bother with a woman like this. Since she would never understand the truth from him she will never be able to understand anything. Whatever goes around comes around. I only hope for his safety now as I know that he is not feeling very well and the last time I saw him was he was bleeding from his nose and the right side of his eyes. I pray to GOD that he be found and GOD will send him an angel to protect him. Ghrame PLS GO BACK.YOU ARE NOT FEELING WELL.

As for that woman Ms.Er, you have done so much to him that you yourself have lost alot of trust in many and moreover you do not know who are the ones still talk behind your back.All you are worried about is how others look at you. You should have done something right or you could still do something right. For a man to sacrifice alot for a woman that is something I hardly see in singapore.I would consider you very lucky to have him. Now my only hope is that you do something good as he is really not feeling very well and you know what might happen to him. I guess he is just waiting for your reply/call. He had done so many good things for you and the kids than you must realize that goodness always overcome bad. Pretending is not a virtue nor does it has dignity.Stop listening to what people are teaching you but look in your heart and know the goodness in him like you once knew and you will realise the truth. He does really love you and I know that for a fact. Save him to save you.

"A love lost is a love that is not forgotten." - HULK

Posted by THE SAINT :: Wednesday, August 13, 2008 :: ---------------oOo---------------